For those in their 30s who feel they have no opportunities to meet people. How to start a relationship with peace of mind
Table of Contents
- Introduction
- Why do we feel like there are no opportunities to meet people?
- Taking a position for serious dating
- Kato Taizo's theory of "mature encounters"
- AI solving the problem of "having no opportunities to meet people"
- Conclusion
For those who feel they have no opportunities to meet people
“Recently, I really feel like there are no opportunities to meet anyone...”
When you reach your 30s, many people feel this way. With work and daily life taking precedence, natural encounters like those in school become rare. Even when trying marriage parties or matching apps, the mismatch in seriousness can leave you exhausted.
However, feeling like there are no opportunities to meet people is not special but completely natural. What is important is not just to increase the number of encounters, but to find "quality encounters" where you can think about the future with peace of mind. Therefore, what Yoitoki proposes is a new option of "serious dating".
Why do we feel like there are no opportunities to meet people?
- As adults, life becomes fixed, and opportunities to meet new people decrease.
- Introductions through friends or workplace romances have also decreased, and opportunities for encounters conscious of marriage are limited.
- On the other hand, many feel that "there are many people looking for casual relationships" on casual matching apps, making it difficult to connect for serious dating.
In other words, the concern of "having no opportunities to meet people" is not just a numbers issue but also a "quality issue".
Taking a position for serious dating
Yoitoki offers a "just right balance" that is more serious than other matching apps but not as heavy as a marriage agency.
For those struggling with "having no opportunities to meet people", it is important to meet someone with whom you can think about the future with peace of mind, not just for fun. In that sense, Yoitoki is the perfect choice for those in their 30s who want to start a serious relationship in a natural way.
Kato Taizo's theory of "mature encounters"
Psychologist Kato Taizo states, "Love is built on psychological maturity." Immature love is biased toward the desire to "be satisfied," while mature love is supported by the "power to give".
- The value of giver types: Naturally paying on the first date / Listening to the other person's story until the end → This symbolizes the "giving attitude" and is a comforting action.
- Psychological maturity and tolerance: The ability to accept without blaming the other person, patience, and the capacity to see the relationship as a whole are the conditions for "lasting love".
- From self-love to love for others: As discussed in "The power to love oneself," only those with healthy self-love can sincerely express love for others.
Based on Kato's theory, the real reason for "having no opportunities to meet people" can be said to be "the mismatch in maturity levels between the partner and oneself".
AI solving the problem of "having no opportunities to meet people"
Yoitoki features a unique AI matching & coaching function called "Kokoro Musubi AI".
- Analyzing values and psychological maturity → Distinguishing whether the other person is someone who provides a sense of security.
- Conversation support → Advising on "questions that provide a sense of security" and "actions that deepen trust".
- Emphasizing essential compatibility → Matching not only based on hobbies or conditions but also on "maturity of character".
Rather than just increasing the number, Yoitoki's strength lies in enabling "high-quality encounters".
Conclusion
It's natural to struggle with "having no opportunities to meet people". However, what is truly important is not "quantity" but "quality". By combining psychologist Kato Taizo's theory with a new approach through AI, Yoitoki offers "secure and serious encounters".
Serious encounters begin here.
Let's find a genuine partner that connects to your future at Yoitoki.
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