“I finally connected for a date through a matching app, but for some reason, it doesn't continue to a second or third date…”
Have you ever had that experience?
In fact, the stage of “third date” holds great significance in romance.
The first date is about impression, the second about interest, and it is only on the third date that “trust” and “seriousness” are put to the test.
In this article, we will introduce why the third date is important and how Yoitoki makes the “third date” possible, which is difficult for other apps.
Table of Contents
The Special Reason for “Third Date on a Matching App”
Signs of “Sincerity” that Make a Difference on the First Date
Real Experiences: Why It Didn’t End After One Date
Why Is It Difficult on Other Matching Apps?
Reasons Why Yoitoki Can Overcome the “Third Date Wall”
Summary: The Shortcut to the Third Date is “Sincerity”
The Special Reason for “Third Date on a Matching App”
- First Date: Confirming the first impression. A turning point to determine if you want to meet again.
- Second Date: Curiosity and interest. A stage of gradually learning about each other's values.
- Third Date: A sense of security and trust begins to grow. An important moment when you start to feel if this is someone you can consider a future with.
In other words, “continuing to the third date” is proof of seriousness.

Signs of “Sincerity” that Make a Difference on the First Date
Yoitoki values the culture of “manifesting sincerity.”
Especially on the first date, it is recommended that men cover the meal and transportation costs.
Some might think, “Wait, isn’t that a burden for men?”
However, what’s important here is “the feeling, not the amount.”
- “I value my time with you”
- “I want you to have a comfortable time”
Conveying this sincerity through actions leads to a sense of security and trust, which naturally connects to the second and third dates.
Real Experiences: Why It Didn’t End After One Date
For example, Mr. A (30s, male) who met on Yoitoki said he often had “one date ends” on other apps.
However, on his first date with Ms. B, whom he met on Yoitoki, he naturally covered the meal and transportation costs.
What Ms. B said at that time was impressive.
“It didn’t feel like I was just being treated. I felt, ‘He prepared this for me,’ and that made me feel secure. So I wanted to meet again.”
This first step led to a second café date, a third museum date, and now they are seriously dating.
This is a practical example that shows that a little accumulation of sincerity is necessary to overcome the “third date” wall.

Why Is It Difficult on Other Matching Apps?
Many apps end with “swipe → message → meet,” which tends to shallow relationships.
- Splitting the bill fails to convey sincerity
- No follow-up after the date
- Unable to bridge differences in values and culture
These “small misunderstandings” accumulate, leading to many cases where people do not progress to the third date.
Reasons Why Yoitoki Can Overcome the “Third Date Wall”
Yoitoki is not just a matching app, but a platform that genuinely connects people.
- Establishment of First Date Culture
A rule that provides a sense of security by having men cover meal and transportation costs. - Value-Based Matching
Kokoromusubi AI, considering psychology, culture, and lifestyle, introduces compatible partners. - Support for International Meetings
Multilingual support and dating etiquette guides allow foreigners to communicate with confidence.
These innovations help naturally cultivate relationships from the first date to the second and third date.
Summary: The Shortcut to the Third Date is “Sincerity”
Whether you can progress to “the third date” is a turning point in romance.
And the first step is to show sincerity through actions.
Yoitoki supports genuine connections with AI and expertise while preserving that culture.
If you are repeating “dates that end after one,” why not experience a different result next time?
Yoitoki definitely has encounters that will make you want to move on to the third date.

👉 Right now on Yoitoki, take the first step towards a special third date.