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Let's start a serious relationship! How to meet people to avoid casual flings and being tossed aside.

Let's start a serious relationship! How to meet people to avoid casual flings and being tossed aside.

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What is the last thing you want to say in a relationship with a girl you are targeting for a fling? To avoid being discarded, meet someone who shares your values at Yoitoki. This explains how to safely realize the encounter you truly desire.

 

Table of Contents

What is a fling? Let's understand the truth

Words you want to hear from your girlfriend: What are the truly important words?

Risks of being discarded: How to avoid ending in a casual relationship

For those who want to seriously date: Reasons you should meet through Yoitoki

Conclusion: Seeking serious encounters, not flings

 

1. What is a fling? Let's understand the truth

The term "fling" is often heard these days, but surprisingly few people may understand its true meaning.
A fling refers to someone who is looking for "casual fun" or "temporary relationships" only.
When the goal is a "physical relationship" or a relationship that ends quickly, it often leads to "being discarded," lacking emotions or genuine love.

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2. Words you want to hear from your girlfriend: What are the truly important words?

One reason flings do not last is the lack of mutual trust and affection.
So, what words do you want to hear from your girlfriend?

For example:

"I feel safe when I’m with you."

"You are important to me, and I want to be with you forever."

"I feel like you genuinely care about me."

Such words convey a sense of true bond.

It is crucial to build a relationship based on deep trust rather than ending it emotionally without hurting the other person, as in a fling.

 

3. Risks of being discarded: How to avoid ending in a casual relationship

"Being discarded" refers to the attitude of having no feelings for the other person and completely ignoring them after the relationship ends.
This behavior makes it hard to feel "truly loved," leading to lower self-esteem and feelings of loneliness.

Risks of being discarded:

The other person gets seriously hurt

It negatively affects future encounters

You emotionally exhaust yourself

It is important to avoid light relationships like flings and to interact with mutual trust and sincerity.
If you want to date seriously, it is crucial to find someone who shares your values from the start.

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4. For those who want to seriously date: Reasons you should meet through Yoitoki

If you want to seriously date, the quality of encounters is the most important thing.
Yoitoki is a platform that not only matches casual fun but also suggests partners who share your values using AI.

AI Matching: Suggests compatible partners based on personality, values, and views on love

Safety: Ideal for those who want serious relationships, avoiding flings and dishonest connections

Communication: By using polite language and respect, you can build a relationship based on deep trust.

Additionally, Yoitoki helps prevent flings and being discarded by matching you with partners who share your values from the beginning, saving you unnecessary time.

5. Conclusion: Seeking serious encounters, not flings

To meet someone with whom you can truly love each other and avoid flings and being discarded, it is essential to choose a partner who aligns with your values from the start.

Using Yoitoki allows AI to suggest the perfect partner for you, finding encounters that match your seriousness about love and values.
Yoitoki helps create wonderful encounters effortlessly to realize the "words you want to hear from your girlfriend."

Meeting a partner who suits you will make your love life much more fulfilling.

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