"It's over to think that I'm not worth it..." Start confidently with specific methods to find the best partner.
Table of Contents:
- Introduction: Why can't I find a girlfriend even though I want one? Explaining the root causes
- Step 1: Change your mindset from "deficit thinking" to "asset thinking"
- Step 2: Basic self-improvement "cleanness" and "small confidence"
- Step 3: Choose the "venue for meetings" that suits you
- Step 4: Basics of conversation "70% questions: 30% talking about yourself"
- Step 5: Smart ways to invite for a date
- Step 6: Confession without fear of failure
- The essence of "finding a girlfriend" and the option of Yoitoki
- Conclusion: From "wanting a girlfriend" to "wanting to make her happy"
1. Introduction: Why can't I find a girlfriend even though I want one? Explaining the root causes
Even though you sincerely wish for a girlfriend, you might feel like you have no opportunities to meet someone and don't know how to act... Many men who are beginners in love face this dilemma.
Many men tend to blame their lack of attractiveness or not being handsome for their circumstances. However, this is a big mistake.
The way to create a girlfriend is not a special talent, but a "skill" that anyone can practice with the right steps and a little courage. This article will thoroughly support your love life by breaking down the steps from finding a venue for meetings to using matching apps, and even to confession.
2. Step 1: Change your mindset from "deficit thinking" to "asset thinking"
First, let's stop the self-denying thought of "I'm not worth it...". Women are not looking for your flaws. They are trying to find your "good points". A lack of confidence can halve your charm.
3. Step 2: Basic self-improvement "cleanness" and "small confidence"
You don't need expensive clothes or a gym. First is "cleanness". Get a haircut, trim your nails, and wear wrinkle-free clothes. Just by doing this, your first impression can dramatically change. And find something, even if just one thing, that you can become passionate about, whether it's a hobby or work. This will become your "small confidence".

4. Step 3: Choose the "venue for meetings" that suits you
Opportunities won't come just by waiting.
- Hobby circles: If you are looking for natural encounters.
- Introductions by friends: High reliability but few opportunities.
- Matching apps: The mainstream today. Most efficient, but choosing the right app is important.
5. Step 4: Basics of conversation "70% questions: 30% talking about yourself"
The important thing in conversation with women is not to tell interesting stories. It's to make the other person "feel good about talking". The basic rule is "70% questions, 30% talking about yourself". By showing deep interest in their stories, empathizing, and asking questions, the other person will feel "it's fun to be with this person".
6. Step 5: Smart ways to invite for a date
Once the conversation is flowing, muster up the courage to invite them on a date. The key is to naturally suggest, "How about going to XX (the place or movie mentioned in the conversation) together next time?"
7. Step 6: Confession without fear of failure
After going on a few dates and feeling that the other person also has a good impression of you, sincerely express your feelings. You don't need a perfect line. What's important is your genuine feelings.
8. The essence of "finding a girlfriend" and the option of Yoitoki
We've explained the steps up to this point, but the most important thing is "sincerity". If you rely too much on techniques, it won't resonate in the other person's heart.
If you are tired of playing games or superficial relationships and are seeking a genuine connection, Yoitoki provides the best environment.
- A safe venue for meetings: Women who pass the Yoitoki screening are all seeking serious encounters. You can focus on sincere communication without the anxiety of "what if it's just for fun".
- Relationships starting from compatibility: Yoitoki's AI "Kokorozashi" recommends women who match your personality and values. Conversations flow naturally, allowing beginners in love to deepen relationships effortlessly.
9. Conclusion: From "wanting a girlfriend" to "wanting to make her happy"
The steps introduced in this article are aimed at "creating a girlfriend", but the ultimate goal is "to be happy together". Your sincerity will attract the best partner.
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