Table of Contents
- How Inclusivity Changes Love
- Kato Taizo's Theory of "Mature Love"
- "Inclusivity" Visible Through Actions
- "Inclusivity" Discerned by Heartbinding AI
- "Inclusivity" Essential for Serious Relationships
- Summary
How Inclusivity Changes Love
When asked "What do you look for in a marriage partner?", many people mention "inclusivity".
While excitement and fun are important, many women strongly seek "a sense of security" as they enter their 30s.
In busy days, when tired from work or relationships, a person who can lean in and support you.
Someone who doesn't deny your feelings but simply accepts them.
It's natural to think that with such "embracing power," one can walk into the future together.
Yoitoki clarifies this "inclusivity" through psychological theories and AI, connecting those seeking serious encounters.
Kato Taizo's Theory of "Mature Love"
Psychologist Kato Taizo states, "Love is based on psychological maturity."
Immature love tends to lean towards the desire to "be fulfilled," but
mature love places emphasis on "giving to the other person."
In Kato's "Mature Love Model," an inclusive person is considered a "giver type".
- Emotionally stable
- Possesses patience and responsibility
- Can see the entire relationship beyond gains and losses
A specific example is "who pays on the first date".
While this may seem like an old habit, it represents an attitude of "giving to the other person = inclusivity". It provides a sense of security and trust to the partner, laying the foundation for a long-term relationship.
"Inclusivity" Visible Through Actions
Inclusivity is shown not through words, but through small actions.
- Listen to the other's story until the end
- Even when busy, check in with "Are you okay?"
- First accept differing opinions
- Naturally support others when they are in trouble
Such accumulations make one feel, "I can feel safe with this person."
Yoitoki has also introduced a system that allows for prior agreement on "budget" and "transportation means" before the first date. This is indeed a “consideration demonstrated through action” and serves as a signal of sincerity to the partner.
"Inclusivity" Discerned by Heartbinding AI
Traditional apps have matched based on "photos" and "hobbies."
However, what actually influences the relationship are "values" and "psychological maturity".
Yoitoki's "Heartbinding AI" discerns elements such as:
- Whether considerate questions are being asked
- Whether there is an attitude of respecting opinions
- Whether one can wait patiently
Furthermore, the AI suggests "trust-building questions" and "conversations that provide a sense of security," allowing for natural expressions of inclusivity.
"Inclusivity" Essential for Serious Relationships
In your 30s, what you seek in love is not temporary excitement, but "someone with whom you can think about the future together."
And an essential part of that condition is "inclusivity."
Yoitoki combines Kato Taizo's psychology with AI to discern the other person's "inner maturity," guiding towards true compatibility.
Summary
Men with inclusivity are chosen because they provide a sense of security and trust, and have the power to nurture mature love.
Yoitoki's "Heartbinding AI" visualizes that maturity and supports demonstrating it through actions.
Serious encounters begin with inclusivity.
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