How to find the best timing and partner that fits your life plan.

Table of Contents

1. Introduction: Are you feeling pressured by the term "ideal age for marriage"?
2. The reality of Japan's "average age of first marriage" seen through data
3. How to face your "life plan," which is more important than "age"
4. [By Age] Marriage strategies you should start right now
   • Late 20s: Knowing yourself and gaining experience during the "self-analysis period"
   • Early 30s: Meeting efficiently based on values during the "strategic activity period"
5. A place to turn your timing into the best meeting
6. Conclusion: The best marriage comes from the best "timing" and "choices"

1. Introduction: Are you feeling pressured by the term "ideal age for marriage"?

"At what age should I start thinking about marriage?"

In your late 20s, as you start hearing more reports of friends getting married, such questions may cross your mind. Many people feel a vague anxiety from the invisible pressure of society's "ideal age for marriage."

However, the age benchmarks that were once considered common sense no longer apply to the modern life plans.

This article explains the real state of marriage in modern Japan based on the latest social statistics. It will also propose specific strategies for meeting the best partner at the best timing that aligns with your career and life design, without being constrained by the number of "age."

2. The reality of Japan's "average age of first marriage" seen through data

First, let’s look at some objective data to alleviate anxiety. According to the latest demographic statistics (2023) from the Ministry of Health, Labour and Welfare, the average age of first marriage in Japan is as follows:

• Men: 31.1 years
• Women: 29.7 years

This number has been on the rise year by year, indicating that late marriage has become the social standard. With the advancement of women in society and the diversification of values, it is now common to carefully build one's life before considering partnership.

In other words, even if you feel "maybe I've passed the ideal age...," that sentiment stems from outdated values.

3. How to face your "life plan," which is more important than "age"

The answer to the question "So when is the best time?" lies not in social averages, but within your own life plan.

• Career: What position do you want to reach in your job?
• Finances: What savings goal do you have?
• Children: Do you wish to have children in the future? If so, when?
• Personal growth: What do you want to achieve on your own before marriage?

By answering these questions in your own way, you will begin to see your "optimal timing for marriage." Marriage activities serve as a preparation period to make a great start when that timing comes.

4. [By Age] Marriage strategies you should start right now

To make the most of your timing, it’s important to know the smart ways to meet people by age group.

Late 20s: Knowing yourself and gaining experience during the "self-analysis period"

This is a great opportunity to learn "what kind of person you like to be with" and "what kind of relationships feel comfortable" through various romantic experiences. During this time when you still have some leeway, interacting with many people and clarifying your own values will lead to success in your 30s.

Early 30s: Meeting efficiently based on values during the "strategic activity period"

As you take on more responsibility at work, the time you can dedicate to your personal life becomes limited. Here, the "quality of encounters" and "efficiency" become crucial. Based on the "non-negotiable values" clarified during the self-analysis period, it is necessary to strategically choose opportunities that are likely to lead to marriage-oriented encounters.

5. A place to turn your timing into the best meeting

When you feel that "the best timing for you has come," where and with whom you meet will greatly influence your future.

Yoitoki is a platform for mature adults who seriously consider the balance between career and marriage.

• Members with clear goals: All participants are looking for serious partnerships. There is no wasting time exploring each other's goals.
• Value matching by AI "Kokorozuki": AI deeply understands your life plan and values, recommending potential partners who are likely to envision the same future. It strongly supports your strategic marriage activities.

6. Conclusion: The best marriage comes from the best "timing" and "choices"

There is no single correct answer to the question "At what age should I get married?" What is important is to listen to the voice of your own life without being swayed by the pace of those around you.

And when "that time" comes for you, confidently make the "choice" to meet the best partner.

Yoitoki helps you turn your life’s best timing into the best encounters.

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Are you feeling bound by the term "ideal age for marriage" and losing your own pace? Yoitoki respects your life plan and is a place where you can meet partners with similar values. For those who want to cherish both career and marriage, we propose the most rational and high-quality encounters.