Introduction

In your 30s, romantic troubles manifest in a completely different way than in your 20s.

"I feel like I can't compete with women in their 20s."

 "I worry that single men in their 30s are seen as burdensome."

 "I've been so focused on work that I find myself still single."

 "Even when using apps, I can't meet sincere people."

These concerns are not unique to you; they are the "real voices" of many single men and women in their 30s.

In this Q&A section, we will address six representative concerns that arise specifically in your 30s, offering empathy and hints for solutions.

"Do I have allure compared to women in their 20s?"

In group dates and matching apps, women in their 20s tend to be more popular. Faced with this reality, many women in their 30s feel anxious, thinking, "Will I no longer be chosen?"

However, the charm of being in your 30s lies in qualities that those in their 20s don't possess: "stability," "calmness," and "sincerity." Your lifestyle and mindset are more mature, creating a reassuring atmosphere just by being together, which is a unique strength of being in your 30s.

When hearing from men, many find women in their 30s appealing, remarking that they "feel calm and easy to talk to" and that they can "think about the future with peace of mind." What's important is not to "compete with youth," but to naturally express the allure that comes with being in your 30s.

"Are single men in their 30s really seen as burdensome?"

Many single men in their 30s worry, "Will women think I'm desperate for marriage?" It is true that, compared to their 20s, they are more likely to be seen as thinking about the "future," but that is not necessarily a negative.

In fact, they are often viewed as sincere, mature men who can engage seriously.

 What’s important is not to emphasize "I am in a hurry to get married," but to maintain a natural attitude of trying to understand the other person.

Calm conversations and small gestures of care will leave an impression as someone "trustworthy" rather than "heavy."

"I can’t find time for romance because I’m always working. Is it too late?"

"I prioritized my career, and now that I'm in my 30s, do I even have the right to date someone?"

- This is a very real voice.

However, in reality, your 30s are a time when work and life become somewhat stable, providing a foundation to face love.

 It’s not about rushing into relationships like in your 20s, but about calmly choosing someone who suits you, which is a strength of being in your 30s.

You don’t need to worry that it’s "too late." Rather, now is the perfect time to build a relationship that is true to yourself.

"Even when using apps, it seems like there are only married or casual people. Are there any sincere individuals?"

- This is one of the most common concerns in the Q&A section.

Sincerity manifests not in words but in daily actions. Keeping promises, responding politely, expressing gratitude—these small things reveal a person's character.

However, it's necessary to choose an environment where only sincere people gather, not just relying on personal judgment. Simply changing the venue where you meet can significantly improve the quality of your romantic experiences.

"Are there only casual people on matching apps?"

"I want to meet someone seriously, but I’m exhausted by people seeking casual relationships"—this is a reality many feel.

It is true that general matching apps have a wide user base, so there are certainly some casual users.

 However, if you choose a venue that focuses solely on serious relationships from the start, this concern will greatly diminish. Additionally, by indicating in your profile and conversations that "I am looking for a serious partner," casual individuals will naturally drift away.

"Since entering my 30s, I haven’t been able to meet someone I really like."

"I no longer feel romantic feelings naturally like I did in my 20s" and "I find it harder to feel excitement" are common worries. However, this doesn’t mean your heart has become unresponsive; rather, your standards for romance have changed. It’s natural to prioritize values and reassurance over fleeting thrills. The true allure of love in your 30s lies within calm relationships.

The concerns introduced so far are the real voices from single men and women in their 30s.

And the solution created for these issues is Yoitoki.

 While typical apps match based on appearance or criteria, Yoitoki thoroughly analyzes values, lifestyles, and sincerity using heart-linking AI.

With zero casual intentions and only sincere individuals, we can present truly compatible partners, ensuring a reassuring encounter for you.

Finally

Dating in your 30s comes with anxieties and pressures that didn’t exist in your 20s.

"Am I attractive compared to women in their 20s?" "Are single men in their 30s seen as burdensome?" "There are few opportunities to meet, and I can’t find sincere people." However, the key to solving these issues is simple: choose the right environment and face the experience of meeting sincere people.

With Yoitoki, you can resolve such concerns.

 Only sincere individuals gather with zero casual intentions, and heart-linking AI analyzes values and lifestyles for you.

 Experience genuine love that can only begin in your 30s.

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