Introduction

In your 20s, it's common for flashy men to be popular.
"Dramatic clothing and hairstyles," "light-hearted and interesting conversations," "a slightly dangerous vibe"—back then, men who seemed "fun" and "free" were attractive.

However, a truly attractive man in his 30s is emotionally stable and can demonstrate sincerity through actions. Regardless of gender, they are perceived as "pleasant to be around," providing a sense of security in daily life and building trust through small gestures and considerate actions.

Differences from Youth

Men who are popular in their 20s
Flamboyance and playfulness are key. People who liven up parties or stand out on social media are in demand.

Men who are popular in their 30s
A partner with whom one can feel secure is sought after. Stability, sincerity, and comfort are highly valued.

Characteristics of Truly Attractive Men in Their 30s

They are calm with little emotional fluctuation.

They demonstrate sincerity through actions rather than words.

They provide a sense of security through small acts of thoughtfulness.

Example: If it rains during a date, they subtly offer an umbrella. They can naturally show concern for their partner's health and belongings.

Actions that Demonstrate Sincerity in Daily Life

Keeping promises

Responding properly to messages

Expressing gratitude during dates or in daily life

Not continuously looking at their phone, but listening to their partner's conversation.

A series of small actions builds trust and makes others think, "I want to be with this person."

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Comfort is the Greatest Charm

Men who are popular in their 30s possess "comfort."

Conversations are natural and pleasant.

They can respect their partner without denial.

Their words and actions are consistent.

The key point is to make others feel, "I feel calm when I'm with this person," through daily interactions.

Demonstrating Sincerity on Dates

Casually covering transportation or meal costs on a first date.

Respecting the partner's opinions and wishes.

Sending a thank you message after the date.

Even just giving up a seat in an izakaya or saying "please" conveys sincerity.

Emotional Stability and Self-Understanding

Men who are popular in their 30s possess self-understanding and emotional stability.

They do not project anger or anxiety onto their partner.

They have clear views on love and marriage.

They can express their opinions while respecting their partner.

The secret to lasting relationships is "self-understanding" and "emotional stability."

Summary

In youth, flashy men may have been popular, but in their 30s, those who possess  stability, sincerity, comfort, and emotional stability are truly attractive. Small daily actions build trust, allowing them to attract people naturally without relying on flamboyance.

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