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The older you get, the harder it is to fall in love?

 

Sugar Daddy is not someone who buys affection

 

“Sugar Baby Love” – Old song, new feelings

 

Why do Japanese people choose sugar dating relationships?

 

Yoitoki – Where no one has to be lonely as an adult

 

Conclusion: Some connections don't need to be called "love"

 

1. The older you get, the harder it is to fall in love?

When I was young, I thought love had to be passionate, romantic like in Korean dramas. But when I reached my 30s, then 40s, I realized:
Love is not hard to find. Finding someone you truly want to stay with is what’s difficult.

In Japan, I've met many Vietnamese men just like myself:

Lonely after failed marriages

 

No time to “flirt from scratch”

 

Just wishing for someone to have a meal with, to share a few words after a long working day

 

Young people call those things “boring.” But for us, that’s true happiness.

2. Sugar Daddy is not someone who buys affection

The term “sugar daddy” is often misunderstood. In reality, a sugar daddy is simply a man willing to provide stability and support in exchange for a clear, straightforward relationship, without ambiguity.

Not everyone needs “butterflies in the stomach” kind of love. There are girls – called sugar babies – who need someone to listen, to care for them, not just a guy who texts all day but does nothing substantial.

Both come together out of respect – not for exploitation.

3. “シュガー ベイビー ラブ” – Old song, new feelings

The first time I heard "シュガー ベイビー ラブ" (Sugar Baby Love), I never thought it would move me so much.

The original – “The Rubettes Sugar Baby Love” – sounds like a light pop song, but listening closely, every lyric feels like a reminder:

"Sugar baby love, sugar baby love... I didn't mean to make you cry"

Whether you are a sugar baby or sugar daddy, we are all human – we’re vulnerable and need someone to be ourselves with.

It's not about being young or old. It's because nobody wants to be lonely forever.

4. Why do Japanese people choose sugar dating relationships?

Japanese women are increasingly independent. Many are no longer interested in traditional marriage. But they still hope for:

A man with life experience

 

Someone to share with about work and life

 

Someone who can support – not just financially, but also emotionally

 

Sugar dating in Japan is not about “trading” – it's a connection between people who are mature enough to know what they need, what they want, and how to respect each other.

5. Yoitoki – Where no one has to be lonely as an adult

Not everyone knows where to start. Messaging via social networks? Going to bars? Not everyone fits that “youthful” way.

I used to think I’d never meet anyone. But then, through an acquaintance, I learned about Yoitoki.

This app:

Made especially for middle-aged Vietnamese men living in Japan

 

Connects with young, modern Japanese women

 

Users are clearly verified – no fakes, no scams

 

And most importantly: every connection is based on consent, transparency, and free from prejudice.

6. Conclusion: Some connections don’t need to be called “love”

You can call it “sugar dating.”
You can also call it “a mature relationship.”
Or simply, call it the right companionship at the right time.

Like the song "The Rubettes Sugar Baby Love" that Japanese people still enjoy – an old song, but with a warm familiar feeling.

When you’re already tired of ambiguous relationships,
Try to open up to something clearer – maybe start with Yoitoki.

Whether you are a sugar daddy or just someone who’s been hurt, what you deserve is not perfect love.
It's someone who chooses to stay because they truly understand you.

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