How to choose clothes for "Papa Katsu"? Introducing outfits for different scenes such as first dates, lunch, and dinner. It also explains strategies for different types of Ps, examples of failures by amateurs, and tips for avoiding fashion disasters.YoitokiAlso includes personal experiences!
Table of Contents
What is the "Importance of Coordination" in Papa Katsu?
Fashion and Impressions Preferred by Ps by Category (Pure/Adult Feminine/Casual)
Outfits and Recommended Clothes for Date Types in Papa Katsu
What Clothes Appeal to Male Investors/Executives/Doctors by Ps Types?
Correct Outfits for Each Season in Papa Katsu (Spring/Summer/Autumn/Winter)
5 Outfits That Are Absolutely Not Recommended and Why
Summary | Choosing both clothes and apps is the first step to meeting a "P" who truly pays attention
◆ By Category: A Complete Guide to the 3 Major "Papa Katsu Coordination" Styles That Attract Attention!
In Papa Katsu, "what you wear" largely determines the first impression.
Especially when meeting aP for the first time, "how you're perceived in an instant" is the key.
Here, I will explain in detail the three classic styles for Papa Katsu women and the suitable scenes and types of Ps for each.
✔ Pure Coordination (Universally Appealing / Suitable for First Meetings)
A style that emphasizes first impressions like "Seems well put together" and "Looks calm."
Especially forfirst café dates or face-to-face meetings, this style is overwhelmingly well-received.
Key Points:
Dresses inwhite, beige, or light pink are best, as they blend well with the skin tone.
GU or Uniqlo works too; what matters is the"neatness" of the material and size.
Hairstyles should be clean and not overly styled. Down styles or half-up styles are standard.
👜 Recommended Scenes:
Cafés in Ginza / Lounges in Omotesando / First face-to-face meetings
🧑🦱 Expected P Type:
Investors in their 50s / Real estate executives / "Mature and composed" type Ps
✔ Adult Feminine Style (For Ongoing Relationships / Suitable for Dinner)
A style that combines "calmness" and "femininity," perfect for second dates and beyond.
Perfect for slightly formal settings like high-end dinners or hotel lounges.
Key Points:
Simplesets or dresses paired with heels highlight femininity.
Use elegantgold or pearl accessories.
Choose a bag that isn’t too big. Clutch or handbag is recommended.
👜 Recommended Scenes:
High-end teppanyaki in Roppongi / Hotel lounges / Night drives after dinner
🧑🦱 Expected P Type:
Foreign company executives / Doctors / High-spec younger Ps
✔ Casual Sweet Style (For Younger Ps / Shibuya Style)
A style to use when you want to project "approachability" and "trendiness."
This coordination is easy to wear when meeting a slightly younger or more casual P.
Key Points:
Tops can be blouses or knits, while bottoms should be denim or long skirts for a casual look.
Footwear can be white sneakers or loafers (but must be clean).
Add seasonal touches with accessories (e.g., lavender in spring, terracotta in autumn).
👜 Recommended Scenes:
Cafés in Shibuya / Walking in Daikanyama / Casual meetings with new Ps in Harajuku
🧑🦱 Expected P Type:
Entrepreneurs in their 30s / Self-employed Ps / Stylish startup guys
📝 Summary: Strategically Align Your "Desired Image" with the "P" You Meet
Clothes are not just fashion but a tool for Papa Katsu.
Being able to show "your true self" while tuning into your partner is what makes a professional PJ.
And no matter how perfect the coordination, it means nothing if there is no P who pays attention.
That's why I choseYoitoki, where I could meet a P who truly sees me and compliments me.
Outfits According to Date Type
| Scene | Recommended Outfit Examples |
|---|---|
| First Café | Knit × Flared Skirt, Knee-Length for Comfort |
| High-End Dinner | Calm Colored Set Up, Heels Up to 5cm |
| Lunch Only | Dress + Cardigan, Modest Exposure |
| Night Date or Continuing Interest | Tight Dress + Outerwear, Balance is Key |
◆ By P Type: Preferred Fashion Trends
Investor/Wealthy Type P: Elegant clothing, with branded items kept minimal.
Doctor Type P: Emphasis on intelligence and cleanliness, with calm color tones.
Entrepreneur/IT Type: A bit of individuality is okay; paired with conversation for improved impressions.
◆ Commonly Seen No-Go Outfits
Skirts that are too short: can appear vulgar.
Flashy logo brand clothes: gives off a money-seeking vibe.
Worn-out clothes or pilled knits: increases risk of failure.
Platform shoes or extreme heels: difficult to walk in → can appear grumpy.
Too much perfume: common no-go in enclosed spaces.
◆ Yoitoki Experience: Met a P Who "Genuinely Complimented My Outfit"
In the past, even if I put effort into choosing my outfit, I often faced "same-day cancellations" or "people glued to their phones during conversations."
However, after switching toYoitoki, many people naturally commented, "You look great in today's outfit" on our first meeting.
Moreover, when a P suggests, "Let’s go to this place for our next date," there’s a feeling that they are truly "seeing me," and it makes me want to put in effort into outfit choices again.
✅ Summary
In Papa Katsu, clothing = business card.
However, no matter how perfect the coordination, it means nothing without someone who truly sees you.
That’s why,
you should be just as particular about the "meeting place (app)" as you are about your outfit.
I met a P who genuinely sees both my outfit and feelings for the first time on "Yoitoki".
