Always fighting with her... Could it be due to differences in values? AI will help you choose a partner who is "hard to argue with" at Yoitoki, for serious relationships and "mama" activities, ensuring lasting encounters.
Table of Contents
The way to reconcile changes the relationship
The biggest risk is the "difference in values"
That's why the "quality" of encounters is important
With Yoitoki, AI supports value matching
What is the actual compatibility diagnosis flow?
Characteristics of couples with fewer fights
Beyond titles like "lover," "mama," and "papa" to deeper relationships
Summary: How to meet someone you won't fight with
1. Why do couples fight?
The reason for increasing fights with her is often not "personality differences," but rather "differences in values."
Slow replies on LINE / Getting angry about late replies
Desiring to meet on weekends / Wanting alone time
Splitting the cost of dates / Believing the man should pay more
When the standards of "what is normal" differ, friction arises no matter how much you love each other.
Fights in relationships surface when the desire to blame the other grows.
2. The way to reconcile changes the relationship
Fighting itself isn't inherently bad.
What's important is how you handle it afterward, that is, the method of reconciliation.
✔ Listen to the other person's opinion first
✔ Talk calmly without getting swept away by emotions
✔ Sincerely say "I'm sorry"
✔ Share what caused the issue and think of solutions for next time
If you can do this, the relationship will actually strengthen.
But... in reality, many people struggle with "compromise," and it's not uncommon for relationships to go from "fighting → distance → natural ending."
3. The biggest risk is the "difference in values"
Many of the root causes of fights are "differences in values."
Differences in lifestyle
Differences in views on love (frequency of contact, possessiveness)
Differences in financial sensibilities
Differences in thoughts about the future
These are aspects that cannot be overcome by just "liking" each other.
That's why meeting someone with similar values from the beginning is the first step to building a relationship without fights.
4. That's why the "quality" of encounters is important
Are you choosing partners based only on appearance or hobbies?
Certainly, things may start off exciting. But with someone whose values differ, stress gradually builds, fights increase, and before you know it, you may feel "this is impossible..."
A common trait among long-lasting couples is that
their sensibilities and sense of distance naturally align.
Yoitoki supports this "quality of encounters" with the power of technology.
5. With Yoitoki, AI supports value matching
Yoitoki is not just a matching app.
AI analyzes users' values, personalities, and romantic tendencies to suggest partners with whom they can build a low-stress relationship.
🧠 Value diagnosis: Visualizing views on love, frequency of contact, and sense of distance
🔄 Compatibility score: AI selects candidates who are "hard to argue with" from the matching options
🤝 The actual matching screen displays "Value matching rate: ○○%"
In other words, no matter what kind of relationship—whether "lover," "mama activities," or "papa activities"—you can meet someone who you can naturally and sustainably continue with.
6. What is the actual compatibility diagnosis flow?
When you register, AI will understand your tendencies through a simple personality diagnosis.
For example, questions like:
What is the ideal frequency of dates?
What do you think when your partner is busy?
When you fight, do you reach out first? Or do you wait?
Do you tend to lean on your partner, or support them?
Based on these responses, AI generates a "value map" and picks out suitable partners for you.
Unlike other apps, it's not a "hit or miss" approach; you can connect with someone with whom conversations flow naturally from the start.
7. Characteristics of couples with fewer fights
Yoitoki couples who say "we are lasting!" have the following characteristics:
They can respect each other without forcing contact on days they don't meet
They can discuss logically rather than emotionally
Even when fights occur, their "reconciliation patterns" naturally align
They have similar values regarding money and dating styles
They build an equal and healthy trust relationship
In other words, it's not about "not fighting," but rather having a relationship where you can properly reconcile after a fight.
8. Beyond titles like "lover," "mama," and "papa" to deeper relationships
At Yoitoki, not only serious dating but also
in adult relationships (mama and papa activities), the match of values is emphasized.
For example:
People seeking financial support and mental comfort
People wanting to share not just age differences but also life perspectives
People wishing for a long-lasting mutual support relationship over a casual one
With AI matching, "connections beyond titles" is a unique charm of Yoitoki.
9. Summary: How to meet someone you won't fight with
If you're troubled with "always fighting with my girlfriend...", the first thing to reassess is "how you meet."
Choosing a partner, whether for romantic or mama activities, compatibility = values is the most important thing.
Yoitoki allows you to meet,
a partner who is hard to fight with
a relationship where reconciling happens naturally
and you can meet a partner
with whom you don't have to worry.
Would you like to meet someone with whom you can be "your true self" here?
